100 Life Experiences

I came across this list on my friend @mikeneumann‘s blog, “Just As I Am”.  He discovered it by way of @marinamartin and her blog “Marina’s Musings”.  While I am not usually one to play with memes, this one intrigued me enough to keep reading.   The items in italics are the ones that I have had the joy to experience.  What about you?

1. Started your own blog.
2. Slept under the stars.
3. Played in a band.
4. Visited Hawaii.
5. Watched a meteor shower.
6. Given more than you can afford to charity.
7. Been to Disneyland.
8. Climbed a mountain.
9. Held a praying mantis.

10. Sang a solo.
11. Bungee jumped.
12. Visited Paris.
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea.
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch.
15. Adopted a child.
16. Had food poisoning.
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty.
18. Grown your own vegetables.
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France.
20. Slept on a train.
21. Had a pillow fight.
22. Hitch hiked.
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill.
24. Built a snow fort.
25. Held a lamb.
26. Gone skinny dipping.

27. Run a Marathon.
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice.
29. Seen a total eclipse.
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset.

31. Hit a home run.
32. Been on a cruise.

33. Seen Niagara Falls in person.
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors.
35. Seen an Amish community.

36. Taught yourself a new language.
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied.
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person.
39. Gone rock climbing.
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David.
41. Sung karaoke.
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt.
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant.
44. Visited Africa.
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight.
46. Been transported in an ambulance.
47. Had your portrait painted / drawn.
48. Gone deep sea fishing.

49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person.
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris.
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling.
52. Kissed in the rain.
53. Played in the mud.
54. Gone to a drive-in theater.
55. Been in a movie.

56. Visited the Great Wall of China.
57. Started a business.
58. Taken a martial arts class.

59. Visited Russia.
60. Served at a soup kitchen.
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies.
62. Gone whale watching.
63. Got flowers for no reason.
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma.

65. Gone sky diving.
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp.
67. Bounced a check.
68. Flown in a helicopter.
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy.
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial.
71. Eaten cavaier
72. Pieced a quilt.
73. Stood in Times Square.

74. Toured the Everglades.
75. Been fired from a job.

76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London.
77. Broken a bone.
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle.
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person.

80. Published a book.
81. Visited the Vatican.
82. Bought a brand new car.
83. Walked in Jerusalem.
84. Had your picture in the newspaper.
85. Read the entire Bible.
86. Visited the White House.

87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating.
88. Had chickenpox.
89. Saved someone’s life.
90. Sat on a jury.
91. Met someone famous.
92. Joined a book club.
93. Lost a loved one.
94. Had a baby.
95. Seen the Alamo in person.

96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake.
97. Been involved in a law suit.
98. Owned a cell phone.
99. Been stung by a bee.
100. Read an entire book in one day. (many, many times!)

Flat Emmy’s visit to Philadelphia

Recently I got to go see my friend Gloria at her home in Philadelphia.  She tried to show me as much of her beautiful, exciting city as possible. She knew that I like history so we went to see a lot of the historic sites, but we also took a day and went "down the shore".  It was funny to hear her say that, but I learned that in the Philadelphia and Southern New Jersey area, they do not call it going to the beach.  They go down the shore.


                            Our adventures in Philadelphia started with a ride on a SEPTA bus.  SEPTA is the
        Southeastern Pennsylvania Transportation Authority.

We took the bus the Philadelphia Art Museum.  It was such a nice day that we decided not to spend the day in the museum.  Gloria told me all about the beautiful paintings and sculptures and I want to go back and see it another time.  It was fun seeing the outside of the Art Museum because the steps are famous.  They are the steps that Rocky ran up in the movie.  I also got to take my picture with the Rocky statue.  

We walked back into Center City (downtown) on the Benjamin Franklin Parkway. It is very pretty with parks and fountains along the length.  It is also a very good spot to see the Philadelphia skyline.  See how pretty it is.

 Our walk down the Parkway took us through Center City and into the historic part of Philadelphia.  This area is called Old City because it is where the city originally started.  Several of the buildings are over 200 years old and there are even some streets that still have cobblestones. Philadelphia is an interesting city because there will be a little tiny very old building right next to a big skyscraper. 

We started our tour of the historic district at Penn's Landing.  This is the spot where William Penn landed when he came up the Delaware River and established the city of                                             Philadelphia.   From Penn's Landing you can see the Benjamin Franklin Bridge.  It was the                                         first bridge that crosses the Delaware River between New Jersey and Philadelphia.

Also at Penn's Landing, I got to see the Tall Ship Gazella.  The ship is very pretty with its very tall masts and sails.  There is a group in Philadelphia that works very hard on preserving the original ship.  It was very interesting to find out that they still sail this ship even though it was built in the 1800's.                                                                                                 


.  From Penn's Landing we crossed a bridge over the highway onto Market Street. This led us into Old City and we started exploring all of the historic sites. Gloria was very nice and explained all of the history to me while we "playing tourist" as she called it.                                                                                           

Emmy enjoying the park at Christ Church
Emmy at Christ Church
Emmy on Alfreth's Alley


One of the things I learned is that there are some beautiful parks scattered throughout
the city. We visited one next to Christ's Church.  Christ Church was founded in 1695.
That's over 300 years ago!  Several of the signers of the Declaration of Independence
were members of the church and for a very long time, it's steeple was the tallest thing
in the city of Philadelphia.  Our next stop was Elfreth's Alley.  It was like stepping
backwards into Colonial times.  Gloria told me that it is the oldest continuously
inhabited residential street in the country,  There are people who still live there now. 


From Elfreth's Alley, we walked around the    
corner to Betsy Ross' house.  It is the
house where she sewed the
original flag.  I never realized how
tiny Colonial houses were, even for
short people like Gloria and I. 
Betsy Ross was nice enough to take
a picture with me.   I also got to take a picture with a nice
Colonial lady named Mary who showed me how to knit.

Emmy at Ben Franklin's Gravesite Sign
Emmy at Ben Franklin's Gravesite
Emmy at the Quaker Meeting House with her new friend William

Just down the street from Betsy Ross' house is the Christ Church burial yard.  It is were Benjamin Franklin is buried.  In my picture you can see the pennies that people throw on his grave for good luck.  Gloria says it is kind of funny that they do that since Ben Franklin is the one who said a penny saved is a penny earned.   Across the street from the cemetary is the Free Quaker Meeting House.  A meeting house is the Quaker version of a church.  It also served as a community meeting hall.   There was a very nice man named William who was telling everyone about the meeting house.   He showed me how to play the glass armonica (no, I did not mis-spell it) that you can see in my picture.  The glass armonica was one of Ben Franklin's many inventions.  It makes really beautiful music.


Flat Emmy at the United States Mint
Emmy at the National Constitution Center

Across the street from the meeting house is the US Mint and the National Constitution Center.   We couldn't take pictures in the Mint, but it was really cool to watch them make coins.  They were making pennies the day we were there.  Our penny adventures continued!   The National Constitution Center was just built in 2000 and it is the only museum in the United States dedicated solely to the Constitution.  At the time we were there, we got to see exhibits about the Constitution, the Bill of Rights and how the Constitution has changed throughout the history of the United States.  It was really interesting and fun.  

We saved the most historic places in the city for last, but before we walked over to them, Gloria wanted me to see a SEPTA subway station.  We walked down underground to the subway station.  It was a little scary, but I it was really cool too.  All of those trains running for miles underneath the city.


Flat Emmy at the Liberty Bell
Emmy at Independence Hall

After a quick lunch, Gloria took me to see the last
two stops on my tour of Philadelphia.  Independence Hall
and the Liberty Bell.  We had to go through some really tight
security but it was really worth it.  The Bell is a lot bigger than I thought it would be. 
Independence Hall is very impressive.  It looks just like it did in Colonial times. 
It was very cool to stand in the same room where they signed the Declaration of Independence.

Wow, we had a very full day and got to see a lot of interesting and fun places.  I was really tired, but I couldn't wait for the next day.  We were going down the shore with Gloria's sons, Drew and Sean.

We went to Ocean City, New Jersey.  It is in Southern New Jersey.  Gloria explained to me that New Jersey residents are either from North Jersey, Central Jersey or South Jersey.  They say this because all three areas of the state are very different.  North Jersey is very industrial and suburbs of New York.  South Jersey is a lot of suburbs of Philadelphia and is more agricultural.  Central Jersey is a combination of the other two.  Ocean City is south of Atlantic City and is on an island.  The drive down to the shore was fun.  I got to meet and talk to Drew and Sean.  For teenagers, they are really cool and funny.   We did a lot of very fun things. It was a very sunny day and there were a lot of people on the beach and the boardwalk.  We went on the beach for a little while, but the water was still too cold to go into the waves.   We walked on the boardwalk, had pizza and french fries that were really good.  We stopped in the arcade and played skeeball.  There is a part of the boardwalk that has rides.  We didn't ride any because the ones that were not too scary for me were too little for Drew and Sean.  It was fun watching everyone else on the rides.  Gloria told me stories about when Drew and Sean were little and the rides they used to ride on this same boardwalk.  A lot of the rides were the same and we giggled about how silly it would be to see them trying to ride them now.   Drew and Sean's grandmother has a house in Ocean City so they have spent almost every summer at the shore.   The last thing we did before heading back home was to play miniature golf. I actually made a hole in one! 

Emmy in Ocean City New JerseyEmmy at the shoreEmmy's friends Drew and SeanEmmy on the Ocean City, NJ boardwalkEmmy playing mini-golf on the boardwalk

  I had a great visit to Philadelphia!  There was so much more that I wanted to see, but Gloria promised I can come back anytime I want.  I can't wait!                                                                                                                  

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I am a Military Brat ….

This was passed on to me by an Army Brat friend. It so clearly expresses what is in my heart also

I am a Military Brat

My hometown is nowhere, my friends are everywhere. I grew up with the knowledge that home is where the heart is and the family….

Mobility is my way of life. Some would wonder about roots, yet they are as deep and strong as the mighty oak. I sink them quickly, absorbing all an area offers and hopefully, giving enrichment in return.

Travel has taught me to be open. Shaking hands with the universe, I find brotherhood in all men. Farewells are never easy. Yet, even in sorrow comes strength and ability to face tomorrow with anticipation….if when we leave one place, I feel that half my world is left behind. I also know that the other half is waiting to be met.

Friendships are formed in hours and kept for decades. I will never grow up with someone, but I will mature with many. Be it inevitable that paths part, there is constant hope that they will meet again.

Love of country, respect and pride fill my being when Old Glory passes in review. When I stand to honor that flag, so also do I stand in honor of all soldiers, and most especially, to the parents whose lives created mine. Because of this, I have shared in the rich heritage of Military life.


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How do I make the world a better place …

I try every day by spreading smiles, appreciation, and putting a little "gratitude in my attitude".    I offer random acts of kindness and help whenever possible to whomever possible.  But all of these things are just part of my character, ingrained in me since childhood as the right thing to do.  The things that I have tried to instill in my children so that they too will feel the need, the wonder and the joy of helping others and making their small mark on the world.

I also do something that is a little more personal.  There is a history of breast cancer in my family, so I participate in the Susan G. Komen For the Cure Breast Cancer 3-Day.   Rather than repeat all of the reasons, I'll just ask you to take a look here…




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Things we believed as kids, part 1

This is going to be a periodic post about the things we believed as children and young adults – or at least some of the things I believed…. Dear reader, please excuse how rambling and disconnected some of these thoughts may seem, they are more words from the heart than the head…  I was having a conversation the other day with a very dear friend that I had not seen or talked to in a very, very long time.  Our reminiscing brought up some thoughts that have been the inspiration for this and probably a lot of posts to come ….

Like a lot of kids, I used to believe that the older people were, the better decisions that they made.  Every year we got smarter and made better, more reasoned decisions. My parents and grandparents were the smartest of all.  Of course, you only believe that part until you are about 16, then you are not so sure, but you still want to believe.  LOL

Of course I believed that the older you were the better decisions you made, I was raised/conditioned (whatever you want to call it)  to believe that, even more than so than "civilian" (non-military) kids. Not only did we (military brats, in general) have the normal childhood/young adult trust & belief in those older than us, but the hierarchy system we grew up in significantly reinforced that.  The older you were, the higher rank you were likely to be, so you must be smarter and more trustworthy.   I still struggle with that mindset sometimes.  There were so many very different, both good and bad, things about the way we as military brats were raised and the environment we were exposed to, it should be expected that we would have a slightly skewed vision of life.


Our views on relationships, marriage and family are just one example of that.  When we were kids, how many of our military friends were divorced or single parents in comparison to the norm? I don't know the percentages, but I would imagine it is significantly lower.  My take is that we were given some false impressions of what marriage and family should be about.  A lot of us had parents who behind closed doors hated each other or were miserable together, but because of what the military expected of them and the benefits of the military lifestyle (especially the officers) they would never consider splitting up.  Even those of us who had parents with relatively happy marriages, like me, were indoctrinated with the "impressions are everything" state of mind.   I don't blame my previous inability to sustain a successful relationship solely on that upbringing (there were too many other factors that affected it) but it definitely played a part in who I am as a person.  To some degree, it still does.  the "need to put my best foot forward", to excel, the work ethic, the sociability are partially the Bell & Grubbs (Dad's & Mom's families) heritage and partially the Army brat that grew up inside me.

Now, don't get me wrong.  This does not mean that the things we learned and were exposed to were necessarily bad things.  They just were what they were.  What we take away from them depends on who each of us is inside and how we got there.   I  personally like to think that my life as an Army brat and my wonderful parents are what has made up the best part of me.  The screwed up parts – I'll just blame on my own choices and biology.

 So what were some of the things you believed in as a kid?  How have those beliefs changed?  How did they affect you?   What do you believe now?  Can't wait to hear what you have to say.

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