For a full sit-down dinner with several guests, would you rather be the one cooking or do you prefer to just show up and eat?
I prefer to be the one cooking. I love to cook, but there is something about fixing a big dinner for friends and family that is such an expression of love. Good friends, loving family, good wine, good food makes for a perfect day.
A fun day spent wandering a flea market, having lunch and sitting outside enjoying the weather and a few (ok more than a few drinks!) with a very dear friend.
Sat night was on a "date" with another friend who I would like to get to know better. We'll see how that does or does not work out. We had a really good time together anyway.
The only hiccup to Sat. night was running into my ex and his new girlfriend and a bunch of their friends. I walked right by him. Sadly, neither of us acknowledging each other. This is getting to be ridiculous. We need to be adults and not act as if the other one does not exist. But, when he is with her, I am not going to go out of my way to speak to him. If we see each other at the same time or he says something, then I will speak to him. But, I won't seem to be making a scene by going out of my way to speak to him when he is with her. I won't lower myself to that. If he is alone, with his guy friends or we both see each at the same time, I will speak to him. I refuse to act as if we were not together, that what we had was not real. I hope that at some point he choses to do the same.
Sunday was the best day of the weekend. Sunny and warm. I spent it burning a lot of calories and absorbing a lot of sunshine by kayaking down the Delaware River with my friend Denise. The fall colors in the trees were beautiful. The trip again was telling the story of my life. Surrounded by beauty, that is changing in many ways. The water was higher creating slightly bigger rapids and the wind was blowing upstream so we were paddling into it. I spent a good portion of my paddling feeling like I was moving in place, but actually making a little bit of progress. Eventually, we came to the end
A nice dinner and a few drinks and a nice drive back home finished off our day.
And a Thanks to Philly Car Share! My mini was a blast to drive and the customer service when my 1st reserved car had a flat tire was really awesome! So glad I signed up and I will definitely be reserving cars more often.
Here is some our Sunday – look at that sunshine!